愛情當然也是修行--祝福你當一個好情人

這一篇我以英文寫作，原本只準備發表在我的英文電子報中，
但是寫到最後，這篇其實還是關於愛情與人性的思索。我便想
保留在這個關於愛情的主題之下，一起與各位分享。

我以英文寫作的一些理由就是有些主題我覺得以英文寫比較自
由，同時因為有時候是由於我的性格過於理想化的影響，因此
不太想把不普遍的觀念以中文寫出來。

而且我很懶惰--我不想把自己寫的英文作品翻譯成中文。

請原諒我保持這個形式。

ps :藍色是引用他人文句。
----------------------------------------------- 太陰

Somebody who is a married man falls in love with a younger
girl, he calls her as my Lolita.--you know who I am talking
about. Somehow it doesn't suit that metaphor at all. The
true Lolita is only 12 years old in the novel( by Vladimir
Nabokov) and the film based on the same novel. He is in the
mood as somehow beautiful immoral and unique as that movie
I think he is over indulged in the image of their love . But
he seems to lack the guts to keep their relationship. He
seeks for other masters to tell him that they are meant to be
together or keep distant. I have some opinions but am afraid
that I am not in the position to tell him. It seems that he
thinks he is the character of "Humbert Humbert". There is another
famous movie: "Damage" which cope with the similar topic-scandal
style of love affairs. From my view in reality this guy is not
as courageous as he regards himself.

Anyway I have been always too idealistic toward these love affairs.
I admire those who dares to love and bear the loss of everything
out of their scandals. And sure I admire those who can transform
their love into pure form. In between is not my style. I have
told you that I am too idealistic. I only admire people with
true courage no matter moral or immoral. I am far too cool to
endure in-between.

Jeremy Irons who plays the main role in the two movies. His
acting is brilliant.
JEREMY IRONS as "Humbert Humbert" he talks about the arts :

[Yes,it is something that happens in society. It's not something that
should be condoned or encouraged. But it's something that is.
And the arts have to shed light upon, question, cover, everything
that happens in life.]

And I have questions and opinions about this and that. I feel that
human beings are very weak with one leg in the river and keep one
leg in the bank, where are we going ? Nowhere !!!

We never know what love is and never dare to lose to love.

"I'm going to put off reading Lolita for six years, I'm waiting
until she turns 18." Groucho Marx

"It's about a man who fell in love with a dream he lost, and who
remained in love with it." Jeremy Irons

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