有1次我在超市購物時，<br /><br />前面的老太太突然暈倒在地，<br /><br />我拉住旁邊的朋友想一起扶起她,<br /><br />朋友就說不用我們扶的,別人會的= = <br /><br />後來立即有幾個超市服務員來協助她了.<br /><br />就是厲害的bystander effect,<br /><br />我把責任"分享"給一起的朋友<br /><br />朋友把責任推到別人身上.<br /><br />How to Avoid Being a Victim of the Bystander Effect<br /><br />Talk to people directly. Make eye contact. <br /><br />If possible, use people's names; if not, point. <br /><br />Tell exactly which people to do what. <br /><br />Do not yell indiscreetly for help but do let people know that it is an emergency situation<br />