i share similar thoughts with 半調子. i guess u should try methods other than quarrelling. try to understand & share between yourselves to foster happiness.

me an absolute beginner. pls make your own decisions,

我和半調子觀點一致，認爲爭吵不是解決問題的方法。彼此之間互相理解、分享，培養、尋求快樂和幸福的感覺很重要。
我只是個初學者，最重要的是依照自己的心意做決定。